About me

My name is James, Dont call me Jamesy unless you know me well.

Alcohol, Cigarettes and ALL Drugs disgust me. If im not already close friends with you, and you do any of it, i pretty much dont want to know you. If you are a close friend of mine, dont do any of it around me, ever. if your a girl who does any of it go find yourself an alco/druggy bf because im not interested ok! Intoxication, or the partaking in any of it is one of my hugest turn off's.

Im a pacifist, i talk my way out of things.. some people might call me a minipulater because of it, i call myself a half decent human, i dont like seeing anyone get hurt, even people who make my life complete shit diserve the chance to talk their problems out. If you need to use violence to sort out something that is bothering you, it just means you dont know how to use your brain, nor are you worthy of having one.

I do NOT drink/do drugs/smoke. There are over 4000 chemicals in every single cigarette. Hmmm.. funny how a large majority of peoples parents are smokers, and they try to tell us that coke is bad and unhealthy, when coca-cola has less chemicals than 1 little cigarette. Smoking kills over 400,000 people a year, thats more than one in six people in the United States alone, id very much like to not be part of the other 5/6 in the world that dies because of it, its easy enough for you to say something like "FUCK OFF IF YOU DONT LIKE IT, ITS MY CHOICE" yes thats right, its your choice, i respect that you have your own opinions.. but everysingle choice you make effects someones life, you may not realise it, but it does.. People who are exposed to second hand smoking are also at risk. Smoke that is exhaled not only contains the same dangerous contaminants as inhaled smoke, but the exhaled smoke particles are smaller, so that they can reach distant sites in the lungs of involuntary or passive smokers and do great harm.. You could be fucking someone elses life up just because you dont give a shit about the fact your ruining yours a little more every time you inhale a cigarette. EVERY CHOICE YOU MAKE EFFECTS THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU IN SOME WAY. Think about what your doing before you pick up your next cigarette. Its understandable that you think you dont give a shit about what it may do to you, but unless you have had to sit at the deathbed of at least 2 people in your family and spend years of your life watching them rot away, you will never understand how upsetting it is for the people who love you. Sure you dont give a shit now because your young and "noone cares about you" so your thinking why the fuck not, i have nothing left to lose, um how about your health later in life? Id love to have a family and children later in life, im sure you who are reading this will one day want too as well. Cigarettes are a big cause of multiple types of cancer, heart disease, respiratory disease, circulatory disease, birth defects(which include mental and physical disability) and emphysema. Do you want to give birth to a baby with mental and/or physical disabilities, and send it off to school and let it get teased everyday because its different? Its horrible but kids are mean, they prey on the weak. That child will most likly end up comitting suicide one day, ALL BECAUSE YOU LIKED SMOKING. You dont give a shit now, but think about the big picture. If your a smoker, im not interested in being anything more than a friend to you, and if you are already a friend of mine, dont smoke around me thanks. Unfortunatly ALOT of people have had to go through what i had to with both of my grandfathers, but if you just stopped smoking, you would be saving at least 1 persons life you know.. Does it seem fair to cause someones death just because you like inhaling from a cancer stick? Im not preaching my thoughts on smoking to anyone, your the one reading this lol.. I just hope that it may have opened up your spastic little eyes abit more.

Im not stuck up in any way, but i comment/reply to comments from my good friends before others, so sorry if it takes me a while to reply to your comment. Ok, well iv been told by people who see me and recognise me from myspace that im intimidating so they didnt talk to me because i look like the kind of person that would just say "fuck off!" to a random, im nothing like that, it would probably take me like a minute to get used to you because im really shy, but id really like more random people to talk to me, im nice mkay :).

I respect the fact that everyone has their own opinions, and im glad everyone dus have their own opinons, whether i agree with them or not, it makes everyone an individual, dont be a follower, have the same respect for urself that i do for you and just be urself.

99.99% of the time i fall for girls who play me or think its amusing to break my heart.. I want someone who isnt a slutty heartbreaker =[ My life dus not revolve around the thought of fucking girls, and the term "fucking" is trashy, so dont use it around me thanks. if you want to have sex, thats your choice. This is for anyone who ever ends up liking me or gets crush on me or whatever.. DONT TRY TO WIN ME OVER WITH SONGS! It does not make me feel special or loved when you say something like "this song reminds me of you!" it was written by someone else, not you, therefore there is no meaning behind you saying that to me, if you want to be sweet, tell me something sweet from YOU, not one of your favorite bands. If you want me to be extremely frusterated and turned off you forever, go for it. :)

I do not care about what ur thoughts of me are, the only thing that matters is how im going to mod myself next

DO NOT ASK ME IF MY PIERCINGS HURT WHEN GETTING THEM DONE!
Get them done for urself if ur so keen to find out.